When One Dream Dies, Another One Is Born

Like most people, I had a dream of growing up as a child. My dream was to become one of the best runners in the world. My goal to accomplish this dream was to make the U.S. Olympic team in one of the middle-distance events. This desire and purpose was a singular focus of mine for many years.

Fast forward to the end of my story. As it turned out, I reached the national class level in my sport by making the U.S. rankings in the 1500 meters and the mile. However, I never got my goal of running in the Olympic Games. My times were just not fast enough. My desire to become of the best runners in the world was never fulfilled, or was it? Now, for the rest of the story.

Desires of the heart are the fuel of life. Godly desires keep us going and get us out of bed each morning. It may initially take one form to us when you have a dream, but God may transform that desire into something completely different. He has a way of fulfilling our desires in the most unpredictable ways. Let me explain.

The desire locked deep down in my soul as a young man was to become one of the world's best runners and make the Olympic team. My goal of making the Olympic team was a quiet focus for me for nearly two decades.

Something inside of me would not let my dream die. I kept holding on to my goal until one day in the spring in my mid-twenties, I knew my dream was over, or so I thought.

I remember very vividly the day I stopped chasing my dream. I was racing in a significant competitive track meet and failed to reach the time I needed to move to the next level (I was injured three weeks before this event and had lost my fitness). I knew this was my last attempt at my dream because I would be past my prime and too old to compete by the time the next Olympic Trials rolled around.

When I failed to reach my goal of running, my thinking was that I was unable to achieve my dream of becoming one of the best in the world. Being a realist and very logical, I knew my goal as I had defined it was over, and it was time to get real, move on in life, and turn in my spikes.

Extreme sadness crept into my mind and body like a storm passing through in the night when I thought about losing my lifetime goal. I sat alone on the track at the last meet of my life, quietly reflecting and praying as years of memories passed through my mind, and the tears flowed.

Being a competitor, my pity party did not last long. I intuitively prayed for a new goal to take the place of my lost goal. Like the Bible says, "without a vision, the people perish." I needed to get back into the race again. Hope once again filled my soul.

You all know the rest of the story by now. I went on to win the title of The Ultimate Runner and set a record in the event. In the process, I finished ahead of many national and world-class runners whom I had never beaten before. I had fulfilled my desire to run with the best in the world. However, my original dream came true in a different way.

Winning the Original Ultimate Runner turned out to be my Olympic Games and my running career's "best event."

The desires written on our hearts are placed there for a reason. However, we can miss or misread the intended outcomes of our passions at times. In other words, we can be mistaken about how our desires will play out in life. God may fulfill our passion in a completely different way than we ever imagined. Such was the case in my life.

A good friend once told me that it was apparent that the Ultimate Runner Competition was made for me and would be my "best event." However, it was not evident to me at all! I was always pretty good at many running events, much like a decathlete is good at several track and field events. However, like a decathlete, I was never a world leader in any one event. I liked and ran all the running events.

The life lesson here is apparent. We may have a strong desire and dream that we chase after—sometimes for years. That desire is a part of who we for a reason. However, God may have a different way of fulfilling our desires. Sometimes our dreams change.                                             

Using a running analogy, He may have a "different event” for us that fulfills our desire and potential in a way that is unimaginable at first. The key is listening to that still small voice inside of you about the direction you must follow.

Are you failing to reach your  potential because you have chosen to stay in the wrong event in life? This question is huge, folks. Ask, pray, and reflect on this question if you are still chasing after a desire and dream still burning in your heart.

Never give up on your deepest desires and dreams. Healthy desires live inside you for a reason. When one goal fades,  a better plan may take its place.

God gives us the desires of our hearts. However, sometimes those desires are fulfilled differently than we first imagined.

Read Psalm 37:4 for more information about fulfilling the desires of the heart.

The original Ultimate Runner Competition consisted of running a 10k, 400 meters, 100 meters, a mile, and marathon all on the same day. Many national and world- class runners competed in the event over the years to determine the best overall runner. I was blessed to win and set the all-time record in the event.